We went to Things Remembered and bought a personalized ornamanent. It was a mirrored angel with a 2009 charm. We had it engraved to say "Our Angel" and the name that we gave the baby. I like having the ornament for the baby and the acknowledgment that he existed for us. I also like that because the ornament is a mirror, it kind of disappears into the tree. It is there if you look for it, but it is hard to see unless you look.
For some reason, I feel weird about admitting that we named the baby that we miscarried. It isn't something that I talk about publicly, but is more a private thing between my husband and myself. I think it has helped us cope with the loss a bit. And, If we have future pregnancies, I wanted to try to separate the baby we lost with the baby we carried. We decided that the baby was a boy, and named him Allan Michael. It is not the name we would likely have given had he been born, but it is a family name, honors M's Uncle who recently passed away and on whose birthday our egg transfer occurred.